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\n\n\nPyetje: Esselam alejkum. A e kam haram me fole me te fejumin ne tel. vetem se i kemi ndru fjalet se po, ama as familja nuk me kane be perhajr dhe as nikah nuk kemi. Esselam alejkum. Allahu ju rujt. \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrgjigje: Alejkumselam. Falenderimi i takon Allahut (azzevexhel), nd\u00ebrsa salavatet dhe selamet qofshin mbi t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin ton\u00eb Muhamedin (salallahualejhiveselem), mbi familjen e tij t\u00eb past\u00ebr, mbi shok\u00ebt e tij besnik, si dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb e pasuan dhe e pasojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij deri n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit. \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lidhja e cila b\u00ebhet nd\u00ebrmjet dy t\u00eb rinj\u00ebve, pa e ditur familjet e tyre nuk llogaritet fejes\u00eb dhe ajo lidhje \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndaluar n\u00eb Islam. Si dhe pranimi i femr\u00ebs duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb PO atij q\u00eb e k\u00ebrkon at\u00eb, nuk e b\u00ebn lidhjen e tyre t\u00eb lejuar. \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Thot\u00eb Shejh Ibn Xhibrini: Nuk lejohet nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb (kontaktet nd\u00ebrmjet dy t\u00eb fejuarve), ngase ajo ringjall\u00eb epshin nd\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb dyve dhe i nxit\u00eb ndjenjat p\u00ebr takime dhe kontaktime, e n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste k\u00ebto ndjenja dhe kontaktime shpiejn\u00eb n\u00eb mbjelljen e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb prostitucionit n\u00eb zem\u00ebr dhe p\u00ebr shkak tyre ndodhin gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pamoralshme. I k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb ata q\u00eb ia duan t\u00eb mir\u00ebn vetes s\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb largohen nga k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra dhe t\u00eb ngjashmet me to, q\u00eb t\u00eb ruajn\u00eb fen\u00eb dhe nderin e\u00a0 tyre. (Fetava Mer\u2019etul Muslimeh 2\/578) \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebshtuq\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nikahu (kuror\u00ebzimi) sipas Sheriatit, \u00e7do gj\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet dy t\u00eb rinj\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndaluar.\u00a0 \u00a0 Nd\u00ebrsa at\u00eb q\u00eb e ka lejuar Allahu (azzevexhel) p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb don t\u00eb fejoj\u00eb dik\u00ebnd, \u00ebsht\u00eb shikimi i saj aq sa \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja, apo biseda me t\u00eb p\u00ebr shkaqe dhe arsye t\u00eb caktuara, n\u00eb prezenc\u00ebn e mahremit (t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit) t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs. \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebshtuq\u00eb, biseda nd\u00ebrmjet dy t\u00eb fejuarve \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndaluar qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb telefon, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebse ka ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e cila meriton t\u00eb shtjellohet n\u00eb mesin e tyre dhe nuk ka ndonj\u00eb ndales\u00eb n\u00eb bised\u00ebn e tyre.\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Thot\u00eb Shejh Salih El-Feuzan: Nuk ka ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe n\u00eb bised\u00ebn e t\u00eb fejuarit dhe t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebs n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet telefonit, n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet kjo pas p\u00ebrgjigjes ndaj tij (pasiq\u00eb familja t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb dh\u00ebnien e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre ndaj tij), dhe n\u00ebse biseda b\u00ebhet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuptuar (p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb caktuar), vet\u00ebm aq sa \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja, dhe n\u00ebse n\u00eb t\u00eb nuk ka fitneh. Edhepse t\u00eb b\u00ebhet kjo n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit t\u00eb saj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e plot\u00eb dhe m\u00eb larg dyshimeve. (El-Munteka 3\/163) \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Allahu e di m\u00eb s\u00eb miri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hoxh\u00eb Omer Bajrami <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pyetje: Esselam alejkum. A e kam haram me fole me te fejumin ne tel. vetem se i kemi ndru fjalet se po, ama as familja nuk me kane be perhajr dhe as nikah nuk kemi....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3191,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-203","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\n