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Pyetje: Pse ende nuk mundem me gjete fatin e jetes? Jam 30 vjeqare, kurre nuk kam pase te dashur, sapo takoj dikend pi kafe, cdo gje eshte ok, mbas nje kohe te shkurter mbesim si shoke ose largohen pa asnje arsyetim, nuk e di pse.. te lutem me ndihmo, jam e merzitur shume per kete. Faliminderit per mirekuptim.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n P\u00ebrgjigje:<\/span><\/p>\n Falenderimi i takon Allahut (azzevexhel), nd\u00ebrsa salavatet dhe selamet qofshin mbi t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin ton\u00eb Muhamedin (salallahualejhiveselem), mbi familjen e tij t\u00eb past\u00ebr, mbi shok\u00ebt e tij besnik, si dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb e pasuan dhe e pasojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij deri n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit.<\/span><\/p>\n S\u00eb pari: Duhet t\u00eb keni parasysh\u00eb se \u00e7do lidhje dhe takim nd\u00ebrmjet mashkullit dhe femr\u00ebs s\u00eb huaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndaluar n\u00eb Islam, dhe nuk ka dobi dhe mir\u00ebsi prej takimeve q\u00eb Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i hidh\u00ebruar n\u00eb to. Nuk i lejohet nj\u00eb muslimanes t\u00eb takohet me meshkuj t\u00eb huaj, qoft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb kafe, apo p\u00ebr t\u2019u njoftuar me ta, apo p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime tjera serioze, p\u00ebrderisa nuk plot\u00ebsohen kushtet q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon Islami.<\/span><\/p>\n S\u00eb dyti: Duhet t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb bindur se \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e Allahut, dhe Allahu ka caktuar p\u00ebr ju edhe frym\u00ebmarrjet q\u00eb do t\u2019i harxhoni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb, edhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb qoft\u00eb e mir\u00eb ajo n\u00eb syrin tuaj apo e keqe. Ngase ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb ta urreni ju duke e llogaritur at\u00eb si t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr ju, e realiteti t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn e asaj q\u00eb e mendoni. Thot\u00eb Allahu (azzevexhel): \u201cJu mund t\u00eb urreni nj\u00eb send, e ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju, dhe mund q\u00eb ju ta doni nj\u00eb send, e ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju\u201d. (Bekareh \u2013 216)<\/span><\/p>\n K\u00ebshtuq\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb kthehuni tek Krijuesi i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi q\u00eb mund t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb dhe t\u2019i plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha nevojat e rob\u00ebrve t\u00eb Tij. Kthehuni tek Ai dhe luteni At\u00eb. Thot\u00eb Allahu (azzevexhel): \u201cE kur rob\u00ebrit e Mi t\u00eb pyesin ty p\u00ebr Mua, Un\u00eb jam af\u00ebr, i p\u00ebrgjigjem lutjes kur lut\u00ebsi m\u00eb lutet, pra p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb ata drejt t\u00eb udh\u00ebzuar, le t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen ata Mua dhe le t\u00eb m\u00eb besojn\u00eb Mua\u201d. (Bekareh \u2013 186) <\/span><\/p>\n Dhe mos harroni se martesa nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi kryesor i njeriut n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb, por ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb shkak t\u00eb cilin Allahu e ka caktuar nd\u00ebrmjet njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb cilit arrihen disa gj\u00ebra t\u00eb caktuara. Nd\u00ebrsa q\u00ebllimi kryesor i ardhjes s\u00eb njeriut n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb adhurimi i Allahut t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, duke mos i shoq\u00ebruar Atij asgj\u00eb. Andaj, luteni Allahun q\u00eb Ai t\u00eb ju furnizoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort q\u00eb ka frik\u00eb Allahun, dhe q\u00eb ua leht\u00ebson dhe ndihmon rrug\u00ebn p\u00ebr n\u00eb Xhenet. E ai q\u00eb e fiton Xhenetin e Allahut, \u00e7ka mund t\u00eb humb\u00eb.. Dhe ai q\u00eb e humb\u00eb Xhenetin e Allahut, \u00e7ka mund t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb..?!<\/span><\/p>\n S\u00eb treti: N\u00ebse mendoni se penges\u00eb e martes\u00ebs suaj \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00eb magji q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ndaj jush, dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb v\u00ebreni ndonj\u00eb shenj\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni nga ndonj\u00eb person i cili fryn\u00eb me Kur\u2019an q\u00eb t\u00eb ju ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim.<\/span><\/p>\n Allahu e di m\u00eb s\u00eb miri. Pyetje: Pse ende nuk mundem me gjete fatin e jetes? Jam 30 vjeqare, kurre nuk kam pase te dashur, sapo takoj dikend pi kafe, cdo gje eshte ok, mbas nje kohe te shkurter mbesim si...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3161,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-215","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nOmer Bajrami<\/span>
\n<\/span>11.05.2011<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"